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Seven – Seven (and more) sins of a FAST Graduate

A guide to the real world by the Cockroach

Lunch and other temptations

For students who still remember the old campus lunch was more or less a rarity. Actually not having something to eat was a good excuse since in the new campus by the time you are through with fees, books, photocopies, and the COMMITTEES there is not much left with which you can eat. The more fortunate of us have always carried – a hidden lunch, lifafa, theely, diba, etc – that ultimately contributed to the students famine fund. Things are better now with the new canteen but once a mufta, always a mufta.

The first sin of lunch and non lunch bearing student is to make the following assumptions.

a. After not having lunch for three to four years suddenly acquiring the habit will not have     any effect on certain parts of your anatomy.

b. After sharing your lunch with 40-60 of your classmates suddenly having it all to yourself     will not have any affects on certain parts of your anatomy.

c. You can’t possibly get any more undesirable than you already are.

Moral of the story is

Look for a job near the campus so that you can come over around lunch and share it with your juniors. Or look for a job where there are enough graduates to ensure that you will never ever go well fed again.

Greed and getting the right job

Once you graduate you will very soon find out that

All lousy jobs have the greatest salaries. (However some lousy jobs also have lousy salaries). All the great jobs have the lousiest salaries. Unlike the former case you will never come across a sexy job with a sexy salary. Because of your innocence you will feel that you have found a good job with a good salary but read your contract with extreme caution. Specially be on the lookout for the following conditions.

- Medical benefits provided by the company. (Why would the company need to provide    free medical benefits unless and until you would really need them once you started    working)
- No specified working hours or place. The company obviously expects you to work at all    times and occasions. Chances are that your boss is a sadist cum masochist and would    stay as late as possible just to watch you squirm under pressure.
- Sometimes the contract refers to Office procedures. This is a document that is shown to    you only on your first day in office after you have signed on the dotted line and when it is    already too late.
- Look at the health of existing graduates. Have they gained weight, have they lost hair,    have they gotten engaged, how do their eyes look, do they have a lot in common with    zombies. I have known companies that send their poor specimens on exam leaves, off    shore assignments or simply work at head office at the time of hiring so that you may    not notice. But remember the smoking adds. For every good-looking healthy, smoking    stud surrounded by good looking women I can show you myself.
- The boss getting married. This is the most dangerous of all signals. Stay away from any    place where there is the slightest chance of a matrimonial engagement. Because first    the boss is going to go on pre-nuptial leave then he/she is going to go on post-nuptial    leave (honey moon for the less literary inclined). When he/she comes back there is a    good chance that he/she may not get to office on time for the next few weeks.
Any guesses on that will be doing his her share of work while he/she is not around.
- The dreaded dress code. Ties, suits, shirts, shoes, clean socks and underwear. Yes my    dear undergrad the time has come for you to part ways with the your old smelly style.    No jeans, no t-shirts, no stinking sneakers. In some organizations you might also need    to shave on a regular basis (hello Ahmed) and occasionally take a bath. Don’t worry all    this means is that you would probably need to get up at least two hours earlier    (compared to your current routine) to reach office in time. Once you get there you can    catch up on your sleep.

Morale of the story

Don’t get a job. Do your masters and delay your decision by another two years. Better yet do a PhD and delay it by seven years. By the time you finish your masters (or your PhD) your classmates and friends (who were stupid enough to get a job in the first place) would be high enough in their organizations to be your boss. Of course if they have already turned into sadistic, masochistic dashes (as in censored) that is just too bad.

The 28 inch waist

All of us have had or will have 28-inch waists at some point in our lives. It’s just the age that is important. For those of us who haven’t – YOU ARE GOING TO LOOSE IT. No matter what you do, what you say, what you eat and what you don’t it’s going to go away one of these days. So accept it and loose it so that the 34 inches do not envy you any more.

For those of us who have – You think this is bad. Wait for another few years and watch the spare wheel in the middle grow on you. Its called age kiddo and you can’t run away from it. Sooner or later its going to catch up with you so accept the fact and enjoy life.


Morale of the story.

If you have been saving that luscious banana split or that good looking American steak for a special day go get it new. On second thought get two of them and give me a call.

And try not to laugh behind the backs of the FAT ex – grads.

Friends

Something on a more serious note. Know your friends, value them and don’t take them for granted. Yes they are a pain some of the time, yes they take you, your lunch, your wallet, your assignment and your romantic interest in life for granted but still take care of them. Because you have no idea how much you are going to miss them.

Morale of the story

Trust yourself, your lunch, your wallet, But be careful with the romantic interest.

Juniors and related social diseases

Juniors. Who is the young brat that is sitting in your usual point seat? Who is the kind with the death wish making time with your romantic interest? And finally what is the name and phone number of that glorious dish in the canteen. Ring any bells. Yep. We wish they went away, at least for a short while if not permanently. But we wish in vain.

However there is more to come. All of us graduate – (I know some of us try otherwise but most of us manage). One of these days you will come to your office and find out a fresh new face sitting and working on YOUR PENTIUM PRO –300 MHz with a GB of RAM. Or worse while you are still stuck with your Pentium pro with a couple of megs of RAM the new kid has his own personal Silicon Graphics Reality Engine with a few tons of Giga Flops hanging loose. Then if this is not enough one of these days you will come to office and find the same fresh new fact chatting up with your latest romantic interest in life. Or the ultimate in all insults one of these days (God forbid but it has happened) you will find your self-reporting to the same not so fresh new face.

So before you bash the kid with the death wish, or throw him out of the speeding point, or dunk him in water on a PICNIC, or bury him till his neck in the pile of fertilizer remember.

Juniors never forget and one of these days you might end up working with or under them. You can also end up teaching them. God have mercy on your soul.

Moral of the story.

In your own self-interest be kind to juniors and other dumb animals.


Smoking

Smoking is cool, smoking is hot, smoking make you look like a cross between Mel Gibson, Pierce Brosnon, Alec Baldwin, Tom Hanks and Al Pacino. Evidence and personal experience indicates.

- Women are not that crazy about it. There are other ways of impressing the dish in the    canteen. Also there are other more satisfying ways of making the dish in canteen feel    bad besides smoking. Finally if smoking is the only way you think you can make the    dish in the canteen feel bad I have news for you. Things are pretty bad for you. Might as    well forget the dish in the canteen and look for some one else.
- It’s not a sign of maturity. Who want’s to look mature? A. 19 year old kid smoking looks   exactly like a 19-year-old kid smoking. Probably looks stupid too. Research conducted   to date conclusively indicates that smoking is a definite sign of a low IQ level.
- Inspite of popular belief smoking has a nasty habit of killing people. Yes you are too    young to die right now but try telling that to your kinds when you are smoking a cigar in    heaven in the prime 30’s of your life.
- In 20% of IT related companies and 60% of MNC in Pakistan you are not allowed to    smoke in working premises. So if you are really addicted you might get into trouble    when you start working.
- There are other ways of concentrating, looking cool and having a good time than the    good old fag.
- Peer pressure. The nerds always feel that by smoking they will belong with the coolest,    smoking gang in the class. Remember.
- The coolest, smoking gang in the class right now will not be the coolest gang around    five years down the road.
- No matter what you do, if you have-not belonged from the beginning, you will never    belong.
- So accept yourself for what you are and save yourself three years of low self-esteem,    torment and pity.
- Above lecture apart the two most important reasons for not smoking are:
- If you thought you had bad breath wait till you smoke.

- If your parents find out they will beat the shit out of you.


Moral of the story is.

If you have been stupid enough to start, at least be smart enough to stop.

Working

Now that you are worried about smoking let me give you the really bad news. WORKING IS HAZARDOUS TO YOUR HEALTH. Bet you didn’t know that. But you are really stuck. After bellowing three years of your life and your parents hard earned money you don’t think you can get away by not working. Its time that you pay for all those bad things that you have done during the past 21 years. Including the ones no one knows about. And if you think that the money you will make would make it worthwhile you are wrong again.

Working is phenomenon, which is very difficult to understand. Some of us are lucky and don’t have to. But life is not full of understanding project partners. In general working involves the following process.

To work you must have a job.
To find out more about how to get a job take a peek at the other sections.
Once you have a job and you are really very intelligent you can manage by not working.
The trick is to give the impression that you are working when in fact you are not.
If you are not careful or not intelligent you can actually end up doing work for all those intelligent and careful people who look very busy when in fat they are not.
Things would not be so bad if the money that you made was directly proportional to the effort that you put in. However!
The careful and intelligent people tend to make more money than the people who do all the work.

Morale of the story is

If you find yourself doing all the work check the following conditions

Are you a one man company
If not become a one-man company so that you save the save the expense of paying all of those careful and intelligent people.

Of course if you are not the boss you cannot fire the boss. At times this is difficult to remember.

If you are not the boss, or you are doing all the work and not making that much, or you are the boss and you are still doing all the work, repeat that course on Natural Intelligence. You never know you might pick up something.

Staying in touch with Technology

Staying in touch with technology involves more than buying a 600 MHz Pentium Pro Plus and sleeping with it. You also need to clean it with a duster every week.

Occasionally it also involves having the latest DOOM variant on the hard disk. You do not have to play it. Just having the engine up a running on your machine is a restatement to your computer science skills.

Morale of the story.

If you have the money to buy the 600 MHz Pentium Pro Plus you do not need to work or stay in touch with technology.

PICNIC and other hazardous activities

Its hazardous to go on a picnic if

You are along.

You are alone and a senior.

You are alone and a junior.

You are a junior.

If you have a natural affinity to mud pies.

You have a natural affinity to juniors or their mud pie throwing gangs.

You are a teacher

You are a teacher who just flunked a student

If you are teacher who has flunked more than one student then you should also sign your will before going.

If you are sitting next to a teacher who has flunked more than one student.

If you are engaged to a teacher who has flunked more than one student.

If you are above forty and have a problem with cholesterol.

If you are just a student you do not have to worry. Buy the time you are finished with your mandatory six picnics you will have a problem with cholesterol.


Moral of the story is

Having a cholesterol problem is very fashionable. It will keep your blood pressure and sugar company when you start working.

The other alternate is to teach and flunk students regularly and go to picnics so that you work off the excess fat while running for your life on the main Manora road.

Teaching

Teaching is a golden opportunity to set all the wrongs that were wrong while you were a student right.
Teaching also has a lot to do with satisfaction.

There is no greater satisfaction

Than putting a whole class to sleep instead of just a few of them.
Than in watching whole classes do a disappearing act as soon as your slot comes in.
Than in catching one of your students doing the bunk.
Than in seeing your past in someone else future. (So this is what I looked like when I was cursing my teacher in that tough final)
But best of all there is no match for the assurance that you will not be along or bored on a picnic four years after graduation.

Teachers are a funny breed. And teaching is a fun profession. If you are qualified enough then pay something back, open up somebody’s mind, make a difference and
Teach.

and when you do remember your days as a student.

Money – myths and facts

Money talks.
Yes it does. To confirm listen to Amir Zaki’s Money

Money matters.
Don’t think other wise.

You are too young too care about money right now.
You are never too young to care about money.

What can you possibly do with all this money now.
There are lost of things in the world that you can do if you have enough money like buying the 600 MHz Pentium Pro Plus or the Silicon Graphics Reality Engine. And if there is any left you can always contribute to my wedding fund.

Think long term, think career, a few thousands here and there would not make a difference.
Thinking long term is a two way street. Don’t think long term alone; let your boss think long term too. And he is right about a few thousand here and there not hurting him that much.


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Saving is a state of mind
Saving is a big joke. It’s also a cruel joke. With inflation galloping at 30%, three years down the road you would be lucky if your salary paid for your trip to office and back home.

Some of the best ways to blow hard earned cash are

Treat your students to drinks when they regain consciousness after seeing your final.
Contribute to my wedding fund.
Make a 50 page final for 60 students and get it photo-stated.
Drive to all of your classes in your air-conditioned car.
Drive to all of your students’ classes in your air-conditioned car.
Run a free air-conditioned limousine pick and drop service for your favourite students.
Wear your new designer jeans and t-shirt to a picnic after flunking more than one student.
Wear your new designer jeans and t-shirt to a picnic and sit next to a teacher who flunkd more than one student.
Invite all of your students to your wedding.
Invite all of your students to your honeymoon.

Moral of the story is

Think before your leap. And look for an office walking distance from home.

The right way of saying no

Being able to say no is a very useful skill. And it will come handy in places and situations you never thought possible. Saying no involves different variation. Some of them include doing or saying the following to the person you want to say no to.

Simply saying no
Drop kicking the shin and then simply saying no.
Dropping your books and your latest 600 MHz Pentium Pro Plus, super strong, concrete reinforced, unbreakable notebook on the offender’s foot and them simply saying no.
Asking him or her to get an A in Info and when he or she comes back with the A after six months simply saying no.

Two other things that need to be remembered before saying no. First are you saying it to the right person at the right time in the right place? All three of these factors are very important. Person, time and place. Second there are times when simply saying no is not enough. In such cases you can either say yes or contact Wali for further assistance. If you do not know who Wali is its time to change your glasses/contacts again.

Moral of the story is

Having a 600 MHz Pentium Pro Note book helps you stay in touch with technology, play the latest version of DOOM, work (only if you want to) and say no. Don’t wait any longer, go pick it up now.

Being Kind to your boss

A boss is a social animal. Some bosses are smart most of them are not.

A boss is always right even when he is wrong. Of course when he is wrong he cannot be right, but try explaining that to him.

Just because a boss is well educated does not mean that he knows what he is talking about. In most cases it is advisable to remain silent even if you are aware of this fact. Bosses never forgive or forget. That is the only thing they are generally good at.

A boss may be a nice person and very difficult to work with at the same time.

What he doesn’t know will not hurt him but will sure as hell ruin your career. Never make mistakes along. Always involve your boss. So that when things go wrong you can blame him. Most of the time you will end up with the blame. So if you have made a mistake own up now and save your self the bother. Blaming your boss is a dangerous hobby and leads to complication on the Annual Confidential Revenge (ACR).

Be kind to your boss when he is wrong, difficult, dumb and arrogant. You will get many opportunities to get back to him later on in your life. Always remember no matter how bad things are you will some day get a shot back at him. So save your treatment for the big day.

In the same breath do not forget your subordinates. When you feed your boss to the paper shredder remember that now you are the BOSS and the paper shredder is still there.

On Memories

Well the lighter part is over. Now for the serious stuff. Four years down the road the three smart things that I have done so far are getting married to Fawzia, using the pseudonym Cockroach and Teaching. It helps.

See when you graduate you think its going to be easy. You feel that one day you will simply walk out with your transcript and that will be it. You would never need to look back. Not if you are a sentimental guy like me. Because one of these days you will come to college all alone and there will be nobody you know sitting on the stairs, or waiting in the canteen, or fooling around in the library. And you can’t imagine how hard that hits till it hits. You will see someone else sitting in your chair, studying your course from your teacher. Someone else sitting on your PC trying to figure out weather he was just hit by a power spike, the PC below a fuse, the world is out to get him, or his program just crashed and hung the machine.

The fresh new faces that you thought volleyball among other things, would be serious then, or gone. There would be so many people that you wouldn’t know and although the halls will be filled with students busy with their routine, inside yourself, you will be along.

It will be late if and when this comes out. As some one told me five and a half years ago. Make the most of what you have. Make the most of the time, the college, the people and the company. Make the most of memories and friends so that you are not left along in a familiar hall four years down the road.

Best of Luck kids, stay loose, stay hot, stay cool. And remember me when you finally buy your 600 MHz Pentium Pro Plus/SGI Reality Engine.

Signed

Yours

The Roach.

 

 

 

 

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